Ding Dang!

You know you're of a certain age when you can recognize this...

Blast from the past! xDD

The Last Few Breaths of 2010

So here we are at the end of another year. Another year older, another year wiser, hopefully.

I think I've learnt so much this year. About others, about myself... Well, just about humanity in general. 

The biggest epiphany I've had this year is still the one about Relationships. To know who are the people who really matter, and appreciate them more. To avoid or eliminate others who only give out negative energy. It's tiring to deal with them. And that's something which I don't need at this point in my life.

I've learnt that it's okay to say "No". I've always been a very obliging person. But I've learnt that saying "No" doesn't make you bad, or any less nice. Sometimes you have to say "No" for your own sake, for your own health. How can one expect to help others, or make others happy, when he himself is in need of help? It's not impossible to do so, but being in a state of Wholeness enables one to better spread Joy to others around. And you need Rest to be able to do that.

It's also okay to say "No" because the people who should and do matter, will eventually understand. Of course we should never take them for granted. But generally, they do understand. Others that simply can't or won't understand and conversely give you grief for it... well, maybe it's time to do some relationship pruning. I'm just sayin', you know?

I've also learnt that Relationships are dynamic. They are constantly evolving and moving all the time. And it takes work to maintain a relationship. Until we realise that, none of our relationships are going to be lasting. Be it between family, friends or lovers. It all requires effort. Just to come home for dinner, and have a meal together, even if it's for that one or two hours. Just a chill session over coffee with old friends. Just time out for the two of you. It all requires effort. It all requires a certain time commitment. And we have to specially set aside time for that. Because it's important. Because it's what makes us, essentially Human.

If everything were about work & study, we'd be Robots. Take away work & study, and we'd just be empty shells, devoid of a Soul.

So yes, my New Year Resolution is to have more balance in my life. To set aside more time for the people whom I care for. To see them happy. If I can achieve this, then yes, I think it is a type of success too. And I think, maybe, just maybe, this might be the Secret to Happiness.

Happy 2011 everyone! Wohoo.....

命中注定

任何事情都是命中注定。

属于你的，就是你的。不属于你的，无论有多拼，永远不会属于你的。

没有期待，就不会有失望。是吗？

哪怕是失望了，总比没努力而后悔好的多。

就一天一天，一步一步地走吧。加油。

Friends.

"Are you okay?"

There are some friends who'll always know you for you, for the times when you're crying beneath the biggest grin in the whole wide world. Brave fronts don't always work. But they love you despite all that anyway.

"Are you okay?"

Yes I am. Better already :)

What’s Love?

幸福是一个水晶球从天空掉了下来
掉到地上 摔的粉碎碎片到处都是
人们都会捡到一片幸福的碎片
有人捡到的多
有人捡到的少
但是没有人全部捡到...


Got the above from Look for a Star《游龙戏凤》, which is the Andy Lau / Shu Qi film currently showing. I went without expectations but was pleasantly surprised.


A light-hearted show, that brings us back to basics.
What's Love?

3 simple questions:
1.) 喜欢吗？
2.) 喜欢吗？
3.) 喜欢吗？

Simple as that. No hows. No whys. Just Love.

Straits Quay.

Recently, I heard about Penang new shopping mall – Straits Quay, but I have no idea what it looks like, just keep received a lot of positive comments: beautiful & nice environment, romantic, and suitable for portrait photography.

A new place in Penang island called Straits Quay. I like the design of the building and also the concept. Definitely a new place to hang out in the future. Honestly, although the place is nice, but I would say they hire wrong people who totally do not know how to handle this situation in a proper way.

Please take a look to some photos that I taken from Straight Quay…

Merry Christmas! 

Universe.

The Universe has started talking again. Things will move. But I have to get moving first.

First step, come on. First step.

And then the thousand miles will begin.

打抱不平

It's people's joyous occasion, I don't see why some small people must stir shit to muddy their happy day.

There's an Eye in the Sky, and it's watching you.

If you're doing this just for publicity, then I hope it majorly backfires on you and your business.Karma's a bitch, remember that.

Because

Because I don't wanna wait till it's too late to show appreciation.
Because everything including Life is transient.
Because while opposites attract, similarities breed an innate trust and understanding.
Because it's not about the length of time.
Because I am Happy.

And Because I think I've found something very Precious.

Because I want to remember. Because it's a Journey.

Elephant.

There's an Elephant in the room but nobody's talking about it.

Shhh... don't wake the elephant. xD

Silent Cadaver

I had the weirdest, strangest dream ever.

Silenced. Cadaver-ised.

Alive.

Crime committed by the Organisation.

Apparently they didn't do a good job.

- - - - -

P said that Death in dreams usually means something Good is coming up. We all fear Death too much, when really, it's about New Beginnings.

I hope there's Truth to that.

The Eclipse

The Lord Bless you and Keep you;
The Lord make His face Shine upon you and be Gracious to you;
The Lord turn His face toward you and give you Peace.

And the Eclipse occured.

My middle name isn't Fairweather. But boy, do we need a miracle.

Till the Eclipse is over.

Hmmm....

What do you do when you're not Happy?

What should you do when you're not Happy?

The weight tugged at the rope, and it frayed just a little more. How long more to crash?

Perhaps this is the push that comes before the shove.

Change.

Who's to say what's Good or Bad?

Smell the wind, do you know what Change it brings?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME.

It’s that time of the year again. Birthday. I’m sure you guys know that I don’t really give a hoot about birthdays, but this year I do feel blessed that I have friends around me who bother. So I wanna express my gratitude and a big THANK YOU to all my friends who remembered, who texted me well wishes, who dropped me messages online in facebook etc etc etc… really, thank you.

This year, I had encountered a lot of changes in my life. Ups and downs. Happy and unhappy stuff. But regardless of whatever changes, these are the people that have remained in my life. These are the people who are always by my side, supporting me and sticking with me through thick and thin. This year, they gathered for me. Thank you!

时尚经典。

你敢跑，我敢追；你敢嫁，我敢娶；你敢当娘，我敢做爹；你敢花钱，我敢挣钱；你敢当红太狼，我敢当灰太狼；你敢说对不起，我敢说没关系；你敢死心踏地，我敢不离不弃；你敢不争不吵，我敢白头偕老；你敢说我是你的一切，我敢说你是我的世界。