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As I grow older and older, I realize a fulfilling life is all about being happy. And the only thing that can bring about happiness is love. Love for your family, love for your friends and love for your other half. I want to love and die with no regrets.

Amsterdam photos coming up! Haha...

I blame myself "@#$%&*+" for my funny poses! haha... I seldom take pictures like this one k... Be thankful... haha...

Flora - Part Ⅱ

Click here for Flora - Part I

简单，不简单。

近来喜欢上黄小琥的《没那么简单》。

其实，很多东西看似简单，但实际上确实错综复杂。

很多人都会说，“为什么就不能简单一点呢？”  谁不想啊？

我也想简单，但却难以捉摸。

60 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys, readd!

Between i didn't write this! I found it on the net, and just thought i'd forward it to u for those who want to read.


-- Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys..you're a HOE)

--"Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

--Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

--Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are
method.

--A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

--Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily.

--Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

--Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

--Girls are guys' weaknesses.

--Guys are very open about themselves.

--It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

--Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

--If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

--Guys will brag about anything.

--Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

--Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

--Try to be as straightforward as possible.

--A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

--If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

--No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

--Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

--Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

--If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

--When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

--When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

--Guys don't really have final decisions.

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

--If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys like femininity not feebleness.

--Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

--A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

--Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

--Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

--Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

--Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

--Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

--A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

--No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

--Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

--We don't like girls who are too skinny.

--Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

--Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

--When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

--Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

--Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

--Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

Remembering Michael Jackson 依然想念....

Yesterday marks the first anniversary of Michael Jackson's death. It was a normal day for me… nothing too exciting happened. To be honest la, I’m not quite sure what the point of this post is other than to mark the one-year anniversary of his death. I never knew the man, all I knew of him was what the friends and media presented. He was eccentric, yes… but I bet you he was full of love. I’m probably one of the minority that didn’t think he was a child molestor… maybe I just think he was misunderstood and people tried to take advantage of that. LOL...

Michael Jackson, we'll love you forever! Rest in peace....

… and now, here are my favorite Michael Jackson song.

一年前的昨天对于麦可积遜，既是最好时光，也是最坏时刻。当时，麦可正夜以继日，拼命的排练，争取给大家奉献一场别开生面演出。麦可希望能续写往日辉煌，重新回到世界舞台之上。当时计划在伦敦2002体育馆举办50场演唱会。曾经无伦比的音乐流行天王，原本希望可以优雅在舞台上进行月球漫步。结果，他的骤然离世留给世人的惊叹与不舍，用光影驻留MJ死前最后绝响的《未来的未来：演唱会电影》（This Is It）注定成为一部卖座猛片，死后仍能化悲伤为钞票！

从音乐神童到流行乐天王，麦可积遜的一生充满了戏剧性。。。MJ，节哀顺便。。。

Past & Future

At this very point of time, what you’ve gone through, is called The Past….

I will never be able to catch back time, be involved in your past. But I do hope, I can walk with you as long as possible into your Future, watching after you…

From now, my set of footprints will always be beside yours… rain or shine…

14岁小男友经手‧9岁产子

（檳城）檳城一名9岁华裔小女生疑与14岁小男友发生性行为，结果珠胎暗结，月前在本地一间私人医院诞下男婴，成为相信是大马首位最年轻的“小妈妈”。

《新洲日报》探悉，这位小女生是属於早熟类型的女孩，自8岁起她就与其小男友交往，可是，其父母並不知情，还以为他们是好朋友。

岂料，这对两小无猜却趁家人不察时，在家里偷嚐禁果，之后更演变成小女生怀孕后產子的社会问题。

知情人士告诉《新洲日报》，小女生已於今年5月在一间私人医院诞下男婴，母子平安。

他披露，这位9岁便当上妈妈的女童来自檳岛市区，生长於一个破碎的家庭。而与她发生性行为的 14岁小男友，据说是她的隔壁邻居。

女童被逼休学

“这对小情侣原是两小无猜，经常一起玩耍，因此，双方家长根本不以为意，直到女童怀孕后，才惊觉事情並不单纯，纷纷大为震惊。”

他说，这位女童的身型比同龄的孩子来得高，发育也比一般女生来得早。

“这位小妈妈与小男友在家人眼里，就像一般的儿童玩伴，喜欢聚在一起嬉闹游戏，却忽略了早熟的两人。”

“相信这对小情侣是为了满足对性的好奇，最终忍不住偷尝禁果。结果，事情被揭发后，双方家长因此乱了阵脚，却又不忍心要女童墮胎，唯有保住胎儿。”

他披露，在经过一段时期的安胎后，这位9岁女童较后在一间私人医院生產，顺利诞下男婴。

“这对小母子俩目前由女童的外婆负责照料。女童外婆於上週日（6月20日）曾向北马一家非政府组织收容所求助，但碍於女童年纪尚幼就当上妈妈，加上收留所没有足够经验提供辅导，因此后者已拒绝收留这名女童。”

他指出，双方家长基於孩子前途，经协议后决定不报警，也不让这对小情侣结婚。不过，大马教育部规定，学生一旦怀孕就必须休学，因此，9岁女童最终逃不过被休学的命运。

大马最年轻妈妈

9岁小女生当妈妈的案件，曾在新加坡及中国等国家发生，但於5月诞下男婴的这位小女生，相信是大马首名最年小的妈妈。

在这之前，英国一名13岁男童因为未做好避孕措施，与15岁女友偷尝禁果后，升格当父母，此事也曾震惊社会。

*All the contents above are from Sin Chew Daily newspaper*

A Letter...

Read this article from my friend blog.

Whatever we’re facing might not be the worst.
Whatever we’re given can never be too little.
Be contented and count on ya blessing…
Cause beware, things can always get worse!

James Foo western food

 My housemate was searching for good food for dinner last night. Then, my another housemate suggested James Foo Western Food. It was just next to Fatty Loh Chicken Rice shop. This James Foo Western Food is located in Fettes Park, Tanjung Tokong... quite a famous place to dine in for western food in that area... the business hour is start from 6pm to 12am midnite.... the place is nicely decorated wif an antique interior.... you can see that there is an old version of bicycle, table and chair are hanging at the top of the ceiling... 

If you’re Penang people, sure you know or at least heard who is the famous Western Food in Fettes Park. Yup, you’re right, is James Foo & Family Fettes Park Western.

These two always like to act cute when take photo.

Very antique decoration.