Helpless....

When things beyond our control happened, it’s so helpless…
So what if we’ve got the whole world? Yet, there’s nothing we can do.
No matter how desperate we are…

And only at times like that, we will then know who we actually needed…
To have them be by our side, taking care of us.

To love,
and Be loved.

It’s such a complicated equation.

罗大佑的这首歌，用的是徐志摩的一首诗.

当我死去的时候 亲爱 你别为我唱悲伤的歌
我坟上不必安插蔷薇 也无需浓荫的柏树
让盖着我的轻轻的草 淋着雨也沾着露珠
假如你愿意 请记着我
要是你甘心 忘了我
在悠久的坟墓中迷惘
阳光不升起也不消翳
我也许 也许我还记得你
我也许把你忘记

我再见不到地面的青荫
觉不到雨露的甜蜜
我再听不到夜莺的歌喉
在黑夜里倾吐悲啼
在悠久的坟墓中迷惘
阳光不升起也不消翳
我也许 也许我还记得你
我也许把你忘记

追根朔源，原作者是Christina Georgina Rossetti.
诗的名字叫 When I Am Dead, My Dearest

When I am dead, my dearest,
Sing no sad songs for me;
Plant thou no roses at my head,
Nor shady cypress tree;
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dewdrops wet;
And if thou wilt, remember,
And if thou wilt,forget.
I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not feel the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on as if in pain;
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Haply I may remember,
And haply may forget.